Many men are 'victims' of their own 'Man-Being', This may sound a bit complicated, but since my existence as owner/masseur of the Slaunge (2006) I am firmly convinced of that. Every day I get men from all over the world in my parlour and on my massage table. From 20 to 80 years old, fat, thin, white, black, Muslim, Christian, etc. My largest customer group is the married man. Especially this man struggles with his man-being. This man 'must' be' so much; Macho, sweet, father,

6000 MEN... As a masseur of the Slaunge I have, so far, given treatments to ± 6000 men. Before I give the treatment, I sometimes ask about the motivation to want to experience a sensual massage from man to man. Of these 6000 men, I estimate that 70% would describe themselves as heteroflexible or bisexual. This includes married men with a girlfriend or female partner and single men who usually have sex with women. Men who, due to their culture or belief system, cannot/may not

How a lack of touch can hinder men. Touch together with food/water/oxygen is a basic necessity of life. Why men need more platonic touches. When I was preparing to read this article about the lack of gentle touch in men's lives, I immediately thought: 'I am confident that I can touch other men platonically, but I don't trust other men to think the same way. A man could just do something 'scary'. After all, they always do that'. Immediately after that I asked myself: 'Wait a m

Het ideaalbeeld van de jongeman is om te gaan trouwen met de mooiste vrouw om vervolgens The ideal image of the young man is to marry the most beautiful woman and then start a family. After all, he sees this happening all around him. If everyone does that this way, that will be the norm, and will be happy with it/by that. As you get older, you get to look at things differently. Naivety is replaced by life experience. You will wonder if the choices you have made have been the

Our emotions, needs and preferences are not static, but dynamic: constantly changing. We all have male and female energy. The ratio determines which gender you are most attracted to. Some men have trouble with the label 'gay'. Curious about intimate contact with a man? But you will be amazed at the large number of heterosexual men who know how to find my massage parlor and also visit it. These straight men choose a massage by a man, because a man can massage more firmly and a

Relaxation, sensual or erotic? Or a combination of these. What is the difference between a relaxation massage, sensual and an erotic massage for men? The difference is in the actions that are taken. What is a relaxation massage? The purpose of my relaxation massage is to calm body and mind. The whole body is massaged, including the buttocks. This is done by long strokes, kneading, pressing, and rubbing the skin using hands and arms with neutral massage oil. With a relaxation