Interest ...in a man.

Our emotions, needs and preferences are not static, but dynamic: constantly changing. We all have male and female energy. The ratio determines which gender you are most attracted to.

Some men have trouble with the label 'gay'.

Curious about intimate contact with a man?

But you will be amazed at the large number of heterosexual men who know how to find my massage parlor and also visit it.

These straight men choose a massage by a man, because a man can massage more firmly and also find it positively 'exciting'.

For these men, the massage itself is just as important as the sensual pleasure they experience.

The men pay for the massage. Then they also want the masseur to be able to massage. The sensual aspect is seen as an eye-opener. For these men, it doesn't matter what the source of their pleasure is.

The sex of the masseur sometimes plays an important role. As long as the whole thing is approached professionally, there is no resistance.

Do they enjoy it as much as a massage by a woman? I dare not answer that. I just tell what my clients tell me.

Often they are interested in the masseur's penis. How does that feel? Can I touch this one? With some of my massages they find out on their own.

Straight men usually have a line. From experience I have noticed that these heterosexual men are open to the explore massage. You let the masseur come very close and experience intimate contact.

But the idea of a naked man 'massageing' your body is experienced as very exciting. Straight people therefore find a body-to-body massage very interesting.

But are not served by a penis getting between their buttocks. That's 'gay'

I think few men have trouble making love to another man (or woman). Kissing is seen as something very intimate, but kissing a man can be experienced as very exciting.

There are men who are in a relationship with a woman, but find out that they are attracted to men.

Discussing this with their partner is something they don't just do. For most men, the best solution is to keep these feelings secret, so as not to damage the relationship. To explore their feelings further, a massage from me is a safe alternative.

Discovering your sensuality and sexuality is a beautiful journey of discovery. You are the captain of your ship. Don't let what others think of you stop you from making this beautiful journey of discovery. Dare to take the step to explore a new and exciting side of yourself.

Massages as an addition to your relationship?

Through conversations with my clients I realize that many men have (erotic) fantasies about and with other men.

They often struggle with this thought: how to deal with it and perhaps put it into practice. Many are married and have a family and want to keep it that way.

Cheating is not an option for him. Although they are satisfied with their sex life, this fantasy gnaws.

Gay-related possibilities are not an option, far too 'scany'. The tension, passion, lust and infatuation fade in most relationships over time.

My massages are a nice addition to your relationship. You receive a professional massage from a man and also experience the sensual part that may be missing in your relationship.

Exploring your sensuality,

There are things you don't know yet about your own sexuality. The older you get, the more you learn about yourself.

I'm still looking at how much I don't know about my sexuality yet. It has no limits. Every person with whom you enter into a (sexual) relationship teaches you something new about your desires and needs.

We all have a limited time on this earth. Our sexuality is a big part of our lives. You don't have to figure everything out yourself.

If you want to develop a new skill or overcome a problem, blockage or complaints, it will save you time by seeking help.

My years of massage experience and the fact that I myself am a man bring me to the ideal person to discover this together.

Discreetly and with all the attention to your well-being.

Conclusion,

A massage by a man is not for everyone!

If you already know in advance that you only like women and feel resistance to the idea of being touched by a man, you should not do this.

Having doubts is very natural with this kind of big changes in your life/identity.

Don't let this stop you from stepping outside your comfort zone. Listen to your feelings.

If you really have doubts and find it scary, I recommend discussing this with me during our intake interview.

You really are not the only one in this one.