Sensuality

Relaxation, sensual or erotic?

Or a combination of these. What is the difference between a relaxation massage, sensual and an erotic massage for men?

The difference is in the actions that are taken.

What is a relaxation massage?

The purpose of my relaxation massage is to calm body and mind. The whole body is massaged, including the buttocks.

This is done by long strokes, kneading, pressing, and rubbing the skin using hands and arms with neutral massage oil.

With a relaxation massage, the masseur remains dressed. The genitals are not massaged.

What is a sensual massage?

In a sensual massage, the erogenous zones are also massaged. The cloths then serve to keep the body warm where there is no massage.

All barriers are removed. As a massaged, you want someone to get closer, make you feel appreciated and wanted.

Warmth, affection and connection are part of the sensual massage. The massage is all about your well-being. It is a fusion of two energies. Mutual intimacy is allowed. The masseur can undress.

What is an erotic massage?

Don't be mistaken: an erotic massage does NOT necessarily involve sex. Although very intimate things happen, there will be no fucking. My erotic massage means that all erogenous zones receive attention, and that you can be brought to orgasm.

The focus is on the buttocks with the perineum and the prostate as a driver of an orgasm.

My goal is to merge relaxation and eroticism together without necessarily ejaculating.

Because of porn, people have gotten a wrong idea of what an erotic massage means. I don't deny that this never happens, but don't expect it to be self-evident.

There are masseurs, and escorts who massage. There is a clear difference between the two.

Difference between tantra massage and erotic massage.

Most people don't know exactly what Tantra means. Not even the difference between Tantra and erotic.

They overlap on various points.

Nevertheless, there is indeed a difference.

In a Tantra massage you are an active participant.

This means that you are not only a recipient of pleasure but also a giver.

It is very tender and affectionate in nature in which both parties explore each other's bodies with integrity through massage and connection.

Much emphasis is placed on deep breathing, grounded and being present.

Oxygen is life energy that flows into your body. By taking a good breath you vitalize yourself. It is about the inducing and remedying (sexual) energetic blockages. With Tantramassages there is little personal space.

In short, the fusion of two bodies. Cumming is not the purpose.

If it happens, it's fine. My Tantra massages are mainly discovering your 'man-being' together. A condition for a good session is that you have a click with the person.

With my massages you are pampered. Depending on the chosen massage treatment. You take on a passive or connecting role. Where the emphasis is most depends on the choice made.

The time is taken to reassure you first and balance you. Step by step, tension is built up by continuing with the sensual touches.

The tension continues to build up and by means of massage techniques it is experienced all over your body.

The goal is to experience a total sensual energy that you can still enjoy for days.

An ejaculation is not the purpose of my massages.